This page serves as a little disclaimer before you interact with me. Since this website is probably the first thing you meet before talking to me, this page will give you some important informations concerning me, how I interact, talk and more.

There are no lists of any sorts, besides my disabilities. While my places on these spectrums will be left unclear, they still impact my interactions with others, thus why I list them.

Difficulties with written text and language

ADHD
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity disorder is a disability which impairs one's executive functions, especially attention, memory, impulse control and planning. I have mild ADHD (meaning my symptoms might be less severe than when I was a child, but it's still disabling me to this day), mixed presentation (both inattentive and hyperactive-impulsive type), and it greatly affects my life. Even though I can take care of things on my own, I can be forgetfull, late, switch activites very frequently, be impulsive, get hyperfocused on bullshit and struggle to process things.

Dyslexia
Dyslexia is a learning disability which impairs one's ability to read, and sometimes, to write correctly. Processing written information is difficult for me, meaning I might get confused, mispell, and sometimes not understand what you mean if your paragraph is too long. It takes lots of effort JUST to read a long text and process it. If you need to tell me something, please keep it short, or if it's long, I'll need more time than on average to decifer and understand it.

Autism
Autism Spectrum Disorder is a disability which affect how someone interacts with other people, process information and sensory imputs, and rigid thought patterns and behaviours. I'm autistic, level one, aka "high functionning" (even though I'm against using functionning levels). It affects my ability to socialise conventionally, I can be awkward to interact with and even be cringe-inducing. Understanding sarcasm and jokes is a pain in the ass (because I have to sit down for a long time on my chair to understand what the fuck do you mean lol), and I can take them personally without meaning to. Sensory processing issues affect voice calls too. I might not interact with you at all because I don't initiate conversations often, I encourage you to contact me first.

Language
Even though I was raised in a bilangual household (French and English), I live in France therefore I don't have as many english-speaking interactions as french ones. I can understand others like most natives, but self expression can be difficult (especially if you consider my disabilities).

Personality

Quirks and Flaws
I don't chew on my words, nor do I use euphemism and censored words when I write or talk. Do not expect me to use terms like "kid diddler" instead of "pedophile", or anything of the sort. I don't sugar coat things, if something's wrong with you or your behaviour, I won't beat around the bush and tell you exactly how I feel. My bluntness might be confused with rudeness, I'm aware of it.
I do not want to make myself seem more friendly than I am, especially when I don't feel good, feel overwhelmed or upset. Do not insist on comforting me or distracting me when I don't want it.
Be warned, my humour can get edgy and dark.

Hyperfixations and special interest, both as the reciever and the one talking
I'm against judging people's special intersts and hyperfixations, however, I am aware that not everyone wants to hear rants after rants over the same subjects. I do not mind being told to stop talking about a certain subject. Hell, please tell it to me if I piss you off, make you uncomfortable or trigger you.
Some of my special interests and hyperfixations includes internet dramas, controversies, problematic themes and characters. These can be trigger to some people, but I can't guess who's uncomfortable who's not, please be direct with me about it. Some of these special interest are also plain ol' annoying or boring for most, you can also tell me to STFU about it.

Boundaries

Concerning venting
Please, do NOT vent to me in private if I didn't gave my explicit permission. I'm extremely uncomfortable with vents, and I don't know how to comfort people. If you feel like venting to someone, please seek someone else. I'm much more comfortable with analysis and giving advices.
Even though I worked in the psychology field, I don't want to mix my work with my internet activites. Do not use my status and experience as an excuse to vent to me anyway, I will not give free therapy in my free time, especially not to strangers on the internet. Please contact your local/national help lines or IRL people who can help you.

Interactions with minors
I don't mind talking and interacting with minors. However, as an adult, I don't want to be friends with anyone under the age of 16, no matter how "mature" they are. On public servers, I might talk to underage individuals, but I am strictly against befriending or having personal conversations with young teenagers.
One exeption : if you need to report a portential predator, I'm avialable. I have the proper ressources to send, I've worked with teenagers in dangerous and predatory situations, therefore I can help detect red flags in relationships, friendship or otherwise.

DNIs, trigger lists and other
I don't have any DNIs, nor trigger lists, not anything that I find uncomfortable or repulsive listed. While there are discussions I will not participate in, artwork that triggers me and more, I will not tell you publicly what they are. I'm forgiving of those who triggers me by accident anyway. I also encourage you to do the same, please protect yourself from internet weirdos.