This page serves as a little disclaimer before you interact with me. Since this website is probably the first thing you meet before talking to me, this page will give you some important informations concerning me, how I interact, talk and more.
Do not try to find a TW list, blacklist, or DNIs, you're not entitled to any of them. If I dislike you, or you hurt me willingly, I'll block you, end of the story.
I have a few neurodevelopmental disabilities which affects my social interactions, including online. Remember that, while I use the term disability, it doesn't mean I consider disabled folks (including me) as inherently "inferior" or "lesser" than abled bodied and neurotypical people. While our conditions aren't always major issues in our and other's lives, because our society is ablelist, I can't expect anyone to understand our struggles and how to adapt to our difficulties. This is why I prefer warning you about my disabilities before you find yourself struggling with my own struggles.
Dyslexia : Dyslexia is a learning disability which impairs one's ability to read, and sometimes, to write correctly. Processing written information is difficult for me, meaning I might get confused, mispell, and sometimes not understand what you mean if your paragraph is too long. It takes lots of effort JUST to read a long text. If you need to tell me something, please keep it short, then I'll ask for clarifications, thanks.
ADHD : Attention Deficit Hyperactivity disorder is a disability which impairs one's executive functions, especially attention, memory, impulse control and planning. I have mild ADHD (meaning my symptoms might be less severe than when I was a child, but it's still disabling me to this day), mixed presentation (both innatentive and hyperactive-impulsive type), and it greatly affects my life. Even though I can take care of things on my own, I can be forgetfull, late, switch activites very frequently, be impulsive, get hyperfocused on bullshit and struggle to process things.
ASD : Autism Spectrum Disorder is a disability which affect how someone interacts with other people, process information and sensory imputs, and rigid thought patterns and behaviours. I'm autistic, level one, aka "high functionning" (even though I'm against using functionning levels). It affects my ability to socialise conventionally, I can be awkward to interact with and even be cringe-inducing. Processing sarcasm and jokes is a pain in the ass (because I have to sit down for a long time on my chair to understand what the fuck do you mean lol), and I can take them personally without meaning to. Sensory processing issues affect voice calls too. I might not interact with you at all because I don't initiate conversations often, I encourage you to contact me first.
Even though I was raised in a bilangual household (French and English), I live in France therefore I don't have as many english-speaking interactions as french ones. I can understand others like most natives, but self expression can be difficult (especially if you consider my disabilities).
I don't chew on my words, nor do I use euphemism and censored words when I write or talk. Do not expect me to use terms like "kid diddler" instead of "pedophile", or anything of the sort. I don't sugar coat things, and I heavily dislike hug-boxing. My bluntness might be confused with rudeness, I'm aware of it. Be warned, I like to troll people I'm comfortable with.
I'm against judging people's special intersts and hyperfixations, however, I am aware that not everyone wants to hear rants after rants over the same subjects. I do not mind being told to stop talking about a certain subject. Hell, please tell it to me if I piss you off, make you uncomfortable or trigger you.
Some of my special interests and hyperfixations includes internet dramas, controversies, problematic themes and characters. These can be trigger to some people, but I can't guess who's uncomfortable who's not, please be direct with me about it.
Please, do NOT vent to me in private if we're not actual friends. I'm extremely uncomfortable with vents, and I don't know how to comfort people. If you feel like venting to someone, please seek someone else. I'm much more comfortable with analysis and giving advices.
Even though I worked in the psychology field, I don't want to mix my work with my internet activites. Do not use my status and experience as an excuse to vent to me anyway.
I don't mind talking and interacting with minors. However, as an adult, I don't want to be friends with anyone under the age of 16, no matter how "mature" they are. On public servers, I might talk to underage individuals, but I am strictly against befriending or having personal conversations with young teenagers.
One exeption : if you need to report a portential predator, I'm avialable. I have the proper ressources to send, I've worked with teenagers in dangerous and predatory situations, therefore I can help detect red flags in relationships, friendship or otherwise.